2024 Sex Outside Holiday Gift Guide

It’s the season where gifting (and giving) play a larger role than ever— so let’s make it meaningful. If you or your loved ones want to support the outdoors, gender equality, climate, the LGBTQ+ community, bodily autonomy, and equity through shopping thoughtfully from BIPOC and queer-owned, women-led, size-inclusive, sustainable brands… well, say no more. Scroll on down for over 60 gifting suggestions this season and beyond.

APPAREL

Gnara Apparel

Peeing outdoors can be less comfortable when you have a vulva— but Gnara has a solve for that! Gnara Apparel is a Gunnison, Colorado-based outdoor apparel company specializing in innovative and inclusive designs to make outdoor exploration more accessible and enjoyable. Known for their patented GoFly® zipper technology, you can find pants, shorts, leggings, overalls, and more that zip allll the way to the back, making access for peeing a breeze. (Psst, use code SEXEDWITHLAURA at check out for 15% off select products.)

Peach Beast

Fun meets quirk meets nostalgia? Count us in. Peach Beast is a vibrant, one-woman-run small business that creates quirky, limited-edition jewelry, apparel, and accessories inspired by food, bright colors, and whimsy. Known for unique collections like “clowncore” and “feral femme,” Peach Beast offers playful items such as sparkly pickle earrings and existential dread sweaters. (In fact, these might just be our new favorite accessory on the mountain or trail.)

Branwyn

It’s not just what’s on the outside that counts— ask BRANWYN! They’re a performance innerwear brand specializing in naturally sustainable, seamless Merino wool bras and underwear. Their products are breathable, moisture-wicking, and odor-resistant, making them ideal for activities like hiking, yoga, and everyday wear. With a commitment to sustainability and ethical practices, shop BRANWYN for high-quality, durable apparel.

Hexa CUSTOM

Size AND gender-neutral outdoor apparel? Yes, please! HEXA Custom specializes in high-quality, customizable outerwear, offering products like jackets and vests tailored to individual preferences or brand needs. Their innovative on-demand production ensures sustainability, premium craftsmanship, and accessibility with no minimum order requirements, making their products an excellent choice for a memorable gift.

Luv Martha

Speaking of size and gender neutral, how about ‘kinis? Luv Martha creates custom, handmade swimwear designed to celebrate all body types with a focus on inclusivity and comfort. Originally founded in a converted bus, Luv Martha offers personalized fits and unique designs, made with attention to detail and fun, high-quality fabrics.

Kitty & Vibe

Kitty and Vibe is an inclusive active and loungewear brand that, in addition to providing fun patterns, addresses the challenge of inconsistent sizing in apparel. They use a unique sizing metric that accounts for both hip and booty sizes, ensuring a more precise and comfortable fit, and they prioritize inclusivity by featuring unretouched photos of diverse models.

Wild Rye

Wild Rye is a woman-owned brand focused on comfort, style, and performance for activities like mountain biking and skiing. With a commitment to sustainability and empowering women, Wild Rye blends technical functionality with thoughtful styling for clothing you’d easily wear both on and off the trail.

Tough Cutie

ToughCutie is a Black-owned apparel company offering a range of high-quality outdoor gear and lifestyle products, with a special focus on durable, functional items like their Merino wool hiking socks. The brand embraces an unapologetically bold and playful ethos, creating products designed to make women feel empowered on their adventures, while prioritizing sustainable and thoughtful craftsmanship​.

Sex Outside shop

Oh hey, it’s us! You might know about our continued quest to combine outdoor exploration with sexual health education, but we have a merch shop, too. Stop on by to check out apparel and accessories that promote size and gender inclusivity, while embracing some quirk and outdoor adventure. (Who knows— it might just start a great conversation on the trails.)

Emma Murray

Emma Murray’s one-of-a-kind embroidered apparel blends her passion for stitching and illustration with a focus on sustainability and environmental justice. From southern Utah landscapes to glaciers in Alaska, her work includes upcycled jackets, embroidered textiles, and custom illustrations, all inspired by nature, topography, and storytelling​. Emma makes ready-to-order pieces of art, but we’re holding out for an upcycled jacket!

ThredUp Gift Card

ThredUp is a large online thrift store that makes it easier to thrift— especially for folks living in rural areas. Searching ThredUp, you can find high-quality, secondhand clothing from over 55,000 brands, including well-known names like Patagonia and The North Face. Shoppers can find items for women and kids at prices up to 90% off retail, making it an affordable and sustainable way to shop. Bonus: Receive 45% off plus free shipping by clicking here.

GEAR

Kula Cloth

This isn’t your grandma’s pee cloth. Kula Cloth offers a practical and eco-friendly solution for outdoor adventurers with reusable pee cloths. Designed with antimicrobial fabric and reflective details, Kula Cloths are durable, absorbent, and easy to clean, making them an essential piece of gear hiker for hikers, campers, or road travelers​. Plus— every Kula is adorned with beautiful designs from artists in the outdoor community.

Coalition Snow

Wanna impress someone with some new skis? Coalition Snow is a women-owned brand dedicated to creating high-performance skis and snowboards that break the mold of traditional snow sports gear. They offer products that prioritize inclusivity, sustainability, and camaraderie over competition, focusing on designs that cater to the unique needs of women and non-binary individuals in the snowsports community.

Awkward Essentials

This is probably gear that you’ve never heard of, but listen up. Awkward Essentials offers innovative, playful products designed to improve post-intimacy hygiene and make self-care more fun. Their best-seller, the Dripstick, is a post-sex cleanup sponge that’s perfect for tackling awkward moments with ease, and might be just the thing that helps someone stay clean and fresh on a multi-day backpacking, camping, or river trip.

Kelty Tru Comfort Double Wide Sleeping Bag

We heard y’all like double sleeping bags, so here’s our tested recommendation! The Tru Comfort Doublewide 20 sleeping bag by Kelty offers an ultra-comfortable sleeping experience for couples or solo sleepers who appreciate extra space. Featuring a temperature rating of 20°F, adjustable foot vents, and a unique zip-off top layer, it’s designed for both warmth and customizable comfort during outdoor adventures​.

Reflective Society

Reflective Society is a queer-owned business that creates unique, fashion-forward accessories designed to enhance visibility and safety, particularly for cyclists and pedestrians (or that one friend you’re always losing at outdoor concerts). Their collection includes reflective scarves, scrunchies, hats, and pins, crafted with a mix of 3M reflective fabrics and materials that balance style and safety. Shine on!

Wild Brush

Wild Brush creates beautiful gear and accessories that combine high-functionality with unique designs from a variety of women-led small art businesses. From their ultra-light backpacks to durable hip packs (even a blanket now and again), each product is designed to bring style and utility to every outdoor experience.

MPOWERD

MPOWERD is a women-founded business offering solar-powered, portable lighting solutions, including their popular Luci brand, which is lightweight, waterproof, and durable. Their products are designed for a range of uses from camping and outdoor adventures to emergency preparedness, providing long-lasting illumination with solar energy or USB charging​.

HEALTH & APPEARANCE

Mad Hippie

We don’t share traditional “beauty’ brands often here, but we feel like Mad Hippie breaks the mold in a lot of ways! Mad Hippie offers a collection of skincare products made with clean, natural ingredients designed to help rejuvenate and protect skin. Their range includes serums, cleansers, moisturizers, and sunscreen, all crafted with a focus on sustainability and cruelty-free practices​. Shopping from Mad Hippie is a great way to support both eco-conscious skincare and a brand that gives back to conservation efforts​.

Wisp

Help your loved ones stock up this season with Wisp. Wisp offers discreet and affordable online consultations for various reproductive and sexual health needs, including STI/STD treatments, birth control, lube, and primary care prescriptions. Their services provide easy access to prescriptions and lab referrals with the convenience of virtual healthcare, all while maintaining confidentiality​.

Plan C Pills

Sure, it’s not a typical stocking stuffer— but medication abortion pills are challenging to get in the vast majority of US states, and might become harder to access with time. For someone in your life who isn’t looking to be pregnant, easing the worry and burden of accessing these medications is a huge gift. (PS: Mifepristone has an approximate 5-year shelf life, and misoprostol has a 2-year shelf life, so this is a gift that’s good for at least a couple holiday cycles.)

Azo

We’ll never stop talking about AZO and how it belongs in everyone’s First Aid Kit (or stocking), especially if you’re an outdoor adventurer. Most folks don’t talk about this type of medication, but AZO provides fast-acting, temporary relief from urinary discomfort caused by infections or irritation, which can be a total game-changer if you or a loved one contracts a UTI while in the backcountry and needs pain relief while seeking urgent care for antibiotics. This is a small gift, but a thoughtful one!

Stardust App

Stardust is a free app designed to track menstrual cycles with secure data encryption while integrating science, astrology, and fun to support individuals in understanding their menstrual cycles better. It offers personalized insights about hormones, mood, and energy, while also providing engaging features like cycle horoscopes, symptom tracking, and syncing with friends​. A membership to Stardust unlocks more features, so consider giving this membership as a gift for a menstruator in your life.

Vampire Shot Glass

Menstrual cups, meet Vampire Shot Glass. The Vampire Shot Glass is an innovative menstrual cup designed to be eco-friendly and inclusive for all menstruators, including those who may experience gender dysphoria. Made of soft, medical-grade silicone, it offers comfort, ease of use, and three sizes to accommodate different bodies. Its unique design features ridges for easy removal and small holes to avoid creating a vacuum, and it provides an eco-conscious alternative to traditional period products by reducing waste​. This would make a thoughtful holiday gift for anyone seeking sustainable, body-positive, and functional period care.

TransTape

If you know someone who’s been looking for the right kind of binder or something that can hold up well in the outdoors, TransTape could be a meaningful gift. TransTape is a gender-affirming, body transformation system that provides an alternative to traditional binders, bras, and packing solutions. Made from a blend of cotton and spandex, its adhesive-backed tape is waterproof and hypoallergenic, designed for comfort and long-term wear.

Pay for their birth control

This one’s simple. If you have a partner in your life who’s on birth control, offer to pay for it yearly. (PS: we know this is a gift guide… but don’t consider it a gift.)

ART & GOODS

Maisie Kane

Maisie Kane is a surreal digital collage artist who creates ethereal artwork blending the natural world with imaginative, dreamlike elements. Her art explores themes of nature, womanhood, and social commentary, offering captivating visual experiences that push the boundaries of scale and perception​. Maisie offers a variety of prints, framed artwork, photo books, clothing, and other art-inspired products​.

Cool Cool Nice Nice

Cool Cool Nice Nice from truck-lifer, climber, and artist Zoë Rayor offers a vibrant selection of prints, stickers, shirts, and other accessories, all featuring bold designs inspired by nature, landscapes, and adventure. A portion of their profits is donated to communities, making every purchase not only a unique addition to your home or wardrobe but also a way to give back.

Wild Gina

Gina Danza, the artist behind Wild Gina, is an intimate landscape photographer and artist. She specializes in nature-inspired photography, capturing moments that blend art, emotion, and environmental storytelling makes for a unique and meaningful holiday gift, offering captivating and thought-provoking artwork that connects deeply with nature lovers and anyone who values artistic, environmental storytelling while supporting a Black woman-owned business. Gina’s work is available as traditional prints but can also be printed on metal!

Artist Natalie

Artist Natalie offers a unique collection of colorful original artwork that connects body positivity to nature and whimsy through posters, tattoos, paintings, and accessories such as keychains and hats.

Jitterbug Art

Jitterbug Art Studio, led by illustrator Latasha Greene, brings the beauty of the natural world to life through watercolor, ink, and digital illustrations. Specializing in nature-inspired artwork, including plant and animal designs, Latasha's creations have been featured in a variety of forms from murals to product packaging and book illustrations. Shopping from Jitterbug Art Studio is an ideal holiday gift for anyone who appreciates unique, nature-inspired art or for those who want to bring the outdoors inside with beautifully crafted illustrations.

Pine Bones

Pine Bones is the artistic brand of Holls Walck, a queer and neurodivergent illustrator based in the remote Utah desert. Their work is deeply inspired by the natural world, focusing on wilderness, ecology, and sacred landscapes, which they explore through a variety of art forms including prints, risographs, and wearables​. Shopping from Pine Bones offers a unique gift idea this holiday season, as each item reflects the artist's personal connection to nature and the spiritual energy found in remote landscapes, making for a meaningful and creative present.

Variegate Designs

Variegate Designs creates plant and human rights-focused art for stickers, goods, and apparel. We’re particularly fond of their new “Reproductive Rights Are Human Rights” bandana, which is dropping soon in their shop and blends reproductive health with natural elements.

Abstract Hikes

Abstract Hikes offers vibrant, nature-inspired art that brings the beauty of hiking and the outdoors to any space. Their collection includes unique prints, stickers, and special commissions. Shopping from Abstract Hikes would make a perfect holiday gift for anyone who loves outdoor adventures, as their prints not only add color to a space but also evoke the joy and serenity of nature.

The Vulva Witch

The Vulva Witch, created by Kaylynn Marisol Campbell, is a platform dedicated to empowering vulva-having individuals through art, education, and body connection. The shop features a range of handmade items including vulva art, incense holders, and self-care products like wash, lube, and meditation oils, designed to foster healing and normalization of vulva diversity.

Strawberry Disco

Strawberry Disco is a vibrant brand that celebrates queer identity and inclusivity through their line of handmade, artistic apparel and accessories. Their offerings, which include unique crochet bandanas, quirky crewnecks, and eye-catching tees, make a bold statement for anyone looking to express their individuality and support the LGBTQ+ community.

CTOAN Co

CTOAN Co. offers a curated collection of unique lifestyle products that reflect body diversity through handmade candles, wax melts, and stylish planters. Their offerings are designed to blend creativity with functionality, creating products that not only serve a purpose but also enhance the ambiance of any space​.

The Peach Fuzz

The Peach Fuzz is a spunky and bold brand, offering an array of fun and thoughtful products for those who enjoy expressing themselves while remaining playful. From stickers and pins to other creative accessories, The Peach Fuzz is perfect for gifting to friends who appreciate an angsty yet joyful vibe.

SPICY GIFTS

Lioness

Orgasms meet data? Hell yes. Lioness offers innovative products that combine technology with pleasure, specifically focusing on the biofeedback vibrator. Their devices track physiological data to provide personalized insights for a more tailored sexual wellness experience, helping users understand their bodies better and improve their orgasms​.

Maude

Maude supports pleasure for all by offering a range of inclusive and gender-neutral sexual wellness products designed to elevate and simplify the way people experience intimacy. Their collection includes vibrators, lubricants, condoms, and wellness supplements, all packaged with a minimalist aesthetic that prioritizes quality, sustainability, and accessibility. A favorite (or soon-to-be-favorite) for sure!

VUSH

VUSH specializes in intimate wellness products, including high-quality vibrators and accessories designed for self-care and exploration. Their wide variety of products all focus on inclusivity and sleek, modern designs (so cute you’ll want to show off!) that makes VUSH both approachable and empowering.

Parade

Parade is a mission-driven brand that reimagines intimate apparel through vibrant, inclusive designs that celebrate self-expression and comfort. Offering a wide range of sizes, gender-neutral options, bold color combinations, and sustainable materials, they aim to make everyone feel seen and supported while being eco-conscious.

Mentionables

Mentionables is a lingerie brand dedicated to promoting body positivity and inclusivity by offering gorgeous and comfortable styles in a wide range of sizes, from XS to 3X. Their "no-model" shopping experience ensures that customers can focus on the beauty and fit of each piece without comparison, making it an empowering choice for self-expression.

Dipsea

Dipsea is a subscription-based app that delivers immersive, audio-first storytelling, offering a variety of romantic and steamy audio content. Their library includes everything from sweet and flirtatious stories to intense and emotional tales across diverse orientations and genres, such as sapphic romance and friends-to-lovers tropes. For a thoughtful holiday gift, consider a Dipsea subscription—it offers a unique way to unwind, spark imagination, or add excitement to everyday moments while supporting women-led creative teams.

Quinn

Quinn is an app offering sensual audio stories designed to empower women and all individuals to explore their fantasies in a safe and imaginative way. The platform features an extensive library of high-quality, voice-acted content that spans various genres and scenarios, providing something for everyone. Users can enjoy a storytelling experience that prioritizes connection and intimacy, perfect for those seeking an alternative to visual erotica​.

Gift Certificate to a local sex shop

Want to shop local? Consider a gift certificate from your local sex shop. Supporting local businesses keeps money in your community and helps normalize positive, inclusive discussions around sexuality. Plus, these shops often provide curated, knowledgeable service that enhances your experience and ensures you find products that meet your needs safely.

BOOKS & PODCASTS

Pleasure Activism

Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good by Adrienne Maree Brown is a transformative exploration of how embracing pleasure can serve as a form of resistance and liberation. Through essays, interviews, and reflections rooted in Black feminist traditions, the book connects joy, sensuality, and activism, inviting readers to reimagine wellness and justice as intertwined pursuits.

Phallacy

Phallacy: Life Lessons from the Animal Penis by Emily Willingham is a witty and insightful exploration of the diverse and often bizarre ways animal penises function in the natural world. Combining humor with scientific research, Willingham uses the animal kingdom’s reproductive anatomy to challenge assumptions about gender, sexuality, and biology, offering an engaging look at the biology behind the birds and the bees.

Wordslut

Wordslut: A Feminist Guide to Taking Back the English Language by Amanda Montell is a compelling and humorous examination of how language reflects and shapes gender dynamics. Montell explores the history of words and phrases that are often used to oppress women, offering a witty and insightful perspective on how reclaiming language can be an act of empowerment and social change.

The Body Is Not An Apology

The Body Is Not an Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love by Sonya Renee Taylor is a transformative guide to rejecting societal beauty standards and embracing radical self-love. Through personal anecdotes, poetry, and insightful commentary, Taylor urges readers to heal from body shame and begin a journey of acceptance and empowerment, challenging both individual and systemic prejudices around body image, race, and gender.

Bonus: put a bookmark inside offering to read these together!

EXPERIENCES

AllTrails subscription

Have a hiker in your family? An AllTrails+ subscription makes for a thoughtful holiday gift, offering exclusive features like offline maps, advanced trail filters, and real-time GPS tracking to enhance their trail adventures, whether they’re exploring local spots or venturing into new, off-the-beaten-path destinations.

NOLS WILDERNESS FIRST AID Course

A Wilderness First Aid (WFA) course by NOLS (National Outdoor Leadership School) equips you and your loved ones with essential skills to manage medical emergencies in remote, wilderness settings. From basic first aid techniques, risk assessment, and patient management in outdoor environments, a WFA course can prepare participants to respond effectively to injuries or illnesses in the backcountry. (Tip: take this course together so you both can look out for one another!)

Get a boudoir session for them

Booking a boudoir session as a holiday gift is a unique and empowering experience that allows someone to embrace their body in an authentic, personal way. It's a thoughtful way of creatively offering a healing space, opportunity for gender euphoria, or self-esteem boost while also producing beautiful, intimate photographs that can be treasured for years to come. Our top pick? Janette Casolary. Her approach emphasizes embodiment, radical self-love, and creating unique, playful experiences that highlight natural connections and confidence.

National Park Pass or State Park Pass

A state or national parks pass is ALWAYS a good idea. Not only does supporting your state or national parks with a recreation pass help to keep them well-staffed and stewarded, but they also provide access to memorable hiking, camping, and wildlife viewing year-round.

AIARE Avalanche SAFETY Training

For loved ones who enjoy backcountry access in the winter, a course with American Institute for Avalanche Research and Education (AIARE) is not only a thoughtful gift, but an essential one. Their programs cater to both recreational users and professionals, teaching essential skills for making informed decisions in avalanche terrain. It’s an excellent way to support their adventures AND their safety education.

Girls Fight Back Programs

Have someone who’s looking for self-defense courses? We’ve got you covered. Girls Fight Back offers empowering personal safety and self-defense programs for people of all gender identities, with a focus on violence prevention and confidence-building. Their services include workshops on self-defense, boundary setting, and safety strategies, tailored for various communities, including college students and outdoor adventurers.

Ticket(s) to Camp Pride

Let’s go to summer camp! Camp Pride offers a transformative summer camp experience for queer adults, focusing on community building, self-expression, and healing through fun activities like camp games, workshops, and even prom night. It’s a space where participants can connect deeply with others in a safe, supportive environment. Tickets to Camp Pride could provide an opportunity for the queer folks in your life to reclaim the joy of childhood summer camp while forming lasting bonds and embracing their authentic selves.

Patreon subscription for their favorite creators

A Patreon subscription is a thoughtful gift that directly supports a content creator or podcaster, allowing them to continue producing the content their audience loves. It’s a way to show appreciation for their work while offering exclusive access to behind-the-scenes content, special perks, or community engagement— all while supporting their favorite creators.

DONATIONS

Planned Parenthood

Planned Parenthood provides a wide range of sexual and reproductive health services, from contraception and STI testing to abortion care and education. They consistently advocate for reproductive rights and access to healthcare, working to ensure that individuals can make informed choices about their health. A donation to Planned Parenthood means more now than ever, so whether you donate to the large, nation-wide federation or your local Planned Parenthood clinic, this gift serves an important cause.

National Network of abortion funds

The National Network of Abortion Funds (NNAF) is a coalition of over 90 grassroots organizations dedicated to providing financial and logistical support for those seeking abortions, advocating for reproductive justice and access to essential healthcare services. A donation or membership with NNAF makes an impactful holiday gift, supporting abortion access and empowering individuals to make their own healthcare choices without financial barriers.

Protect Our Winters

Protect Our Winters (POW) is an organization dedicated to mobilizing the outdoor community to combat climate change. Donations support efforts to pass climate-forward policies, train advocates, and protect the environments that sustain outdoor activities and livelihoods. A donation to POW makes a great holiday gift for the outdoor enthusiast in your life, turning their love of adventure into meaningful action against climate change.

Local Domestic violence & family crisis shelter

Donating to a local domestic violence shelter provides essential support for survivors, offering safe housing, legal assistance, counseling, and resources to help individuals rebuild their lives. Providing this donation as a gift can be meaningful to survivors of DV, while directly impacting those in need and ensuring they have access to the tools for recovery and empowerment. Supporting these shelters helps break the cycle of violence, providing critical services to communities while fostering hope and safety locally.

ACLU membership

The ACLU works to protect and advance civil rights through advocacy, litigation, and public education, addressing key issues like reproductive freedom, voting rights, and LGBTQ+ protections. A meaningful holiday gift, an ACLU membership supports vital causes that ensure civil liberties for all, making it a powerful way to contribute to the protection of human rights.

Local mutual aid fund

Donating to a local mutual aid fund makes a meaningful holiday gift by directly supporting individuals and families in need within the community. It's an impactful way to address immediate needs like food, healthcare, or housing, and contributes to building a more resilient, connected community. This gift reflects compassion and solidarity, helping those facing hardships with tangible support.